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Showing posts with label Habit. Show all posts
Five Years Old Kids Study About Ramadhan Fasting

Five Years Old Kids Study About Ramadhan Fasting

 Kids always wanna know about Ramadhan fasting. Five years old is the age when they ask many things to their parents.

This months is the time when all people in the world get Ramadhan Fasting, they do not eat and drink in the morning until evening.

Knowing that situation, kids ask to moms why all people cannot eat and drink in the Ramadhan fasting? beside that. they know parent do the same and then they will also wanna follow.

Five years old kids does not have responsibility to do the same like adult in the fasting. So, do not force them to do the same like adult in the Ramadhan time.

In that time is the right time to teach them about Ramadhan fasting. There are so many kind of good activity related to fasting for five years old kids.

Ramadhan is beautiful months when all people praise about it. Kids follow what they see. So, teach them about Ramadhan is not difficult.

Moms and dad has important role to teach kids about it beside their teacher. Remember, they have longer time in the home than in the school.

Firstly, moms should make kids feels like they are in the Ramadhan situation. As we know that daily life before Ramadhan is different with today.

Some Activity to Teach Kids about Ramadhan Fasting

There are some activity to teach the kids about Ramadhan. Moms can involve the kids in the all Ramadhan activity.

Beside fasting, there is another activity so that kids understand some activity in the Ramadhan. It's also including the prohibition and people responsibility.

1. Break Fasting

Break fasting in the evening around six o'clock is one of good activity for kids. Moms can inform kids that people can break fasting after hearing adzan and then eat together with kids in the break fasting.

2. Sahur

Sahur is the activity to eat in the morning before Ramadhan fasting. It's around three o'clock in the morning.

Moms can make kids wake up to join eating in the Sahur. However, do not force them to wake up when they do not wake up. The important things is inform them about sahur activity in the Ramadhan.

3. Terawih

Terawih is one of pray which does not available in the our daily. It's just happen in the Ramadhan. So, this is one activity that should be known by kids.

Moms can explain about terawih pray for kids and then ask them together go to mosque for pray together. This is the right moment to teach kids about Ramadhan.


There is another Ramadhan activities like buy food in the evening, recite Al-Quran, and the about the reward from Gods which get many times in the Ramadhan.

Kids will happy to know all information about Ramadhan. The important things is doing all activities together with parents.

Indonesian Family Tradition before Ramadhan

Indonesian Family Tradition before Ramadhan

 Ramadhan is one of important moment to wait for all family in Indonesian. This is a beautiful moment that already wait throughout years.


That's why some family members will conduct many activities before Ramadhan comes. This is very special moment.

There are so many area in Indonesia and every area has different tradition. However, it can conclude just some tradition.

They mentioned different for an activity but what they do is almost same. So, in this article will collect some activities before Ramadhan by family in Indonesia.

Ramadhan is the fasting moment. All of them may not eat, drink, and hold their bad desire like angry start in the sun rises until sun shines in the maghrib.

Before that day, moms is one of busiest person to prepare Ramadhan come. Kids is very happy to welcome Ramadhan and dad support moms in the preparation.

All people feel happy to welcoming Ramadhan. It just happen one months in a years where reward from Gods is given many times.

No one wanna skip this moments, the tradition, happier, gratefulness. That's so amazing. Do you know some tradition before Ramadhan in Indonesia? Let's check this out.

Some Indonesian Tradition before Ramadhan

There are so much tradition because Indonesia has so many area. However, this article conclude that some activities is little bit same, those are:

1. Eating Together

Eating together two days before Ramadhan is one of Indonesian family habit. Some are called it megengan in Java but the other is different.

They cook homemade food and then eat together. It can be for some family members, neighbors, employee in an office, etc.

2. Cleaning Mosque

As stated before that Reward will be given many times by God in the Ramadhan. So, people will clean mosque.

This is the place to pray, recite Al qur'an, etc to get reward from God. All family members will clean the mosque and make it comfort when they use in the Ramadhan.

3. Back to Home

It means that, people from a city to another city. Mostly the purpose is to visit older, going and pray in the grave, cleaning their previous home, etc.

Although back to home tradition is happen after Ramadhan, some people that have holiday is back home in some day before Ramadhan.


It's just three of main Indonesia family tradition before Ramadhan happen. Although there is another tradition, but it's different.

The three tradition above is the common activities because all people is very happy to welcoming Ramadhan this year.

Fasting for Kids Before 5 Years Old : Parent Consideration

Fasting for Kids Before 5 Years Old : Parent Consideration

 Ramadhan fasting is one of time that wait all muslim in the world. They treat fasting like a responsible from God. So, this is one of their obligation.

How about kids before 5 years old? is it true that muslim like kids before 5 years old should be fasting like an adult?

Actually in the Al-Quran is already set all regulation about fasting. Kids that should do fasting is they that already baligh or start to adult age like ten years old for girl and boy.

So, elementary school kids can conduct Ramadhan fasting. However, kids that look at moms that sahur,  buka, and fasting will copy that activity.

Reminder that kids is the best copy from their parents. Looking their parents fasting, they will do the same. And then what moms and dad.

Kids before age does not have mandatory to do fasting. They needs nutrition more than adult. So, how if they wanna follow parent to do fasting?

It is okay for them to do fasting. In the same time, moms can teach them about fasting process like what muslim to do and the prohibition around fasting.

That was good education for kids before age. When they wanna do fasting, it is okay but there are some consideration should think by parent.

Parent Consideration about Fasting for Kids

There are some consideration about fasting for kids. Parent should pay attention some part because this is the first fasting for kids.

1. Kids Weight

The first is about kids weight. In this world there are so many kids with less weight through their age. The weight related to their nutrition and development.

Fasting can decrease their weight. So, parent should pay attention at the kids with less weight. Do not let fasting make them lost a lot nutrition.

2. Fasting Time

Limit the fasting time for kids before 5 years old is better. For example, adult usually fasting until maghrib. That's different with kids.

To teach kids about fasting, moms and dad can limit their fasting until twelve o'clock in the afternoon. So, it will give them education when fasting they cannot eat and drink.

3. Don't Force Them

Remember they are still kids that does not have responsible to do fasting. So, when they cannot do fasting and feel thirsty or hungry, give them drink and eating.

It's okay, fasting for kids before 5 years old it's just education about fasting. They can break the fasting in the middle.

4. Nutrition for Full Time Fasting Kids

However, there is also 5 years old kids that can conduct fasting until maghrib . That's so wonderful. Parent should pay attention to give enough nutrition.

Giving them a lot of drink in the night before fasting. Beside that, parent can complete their nutrition like carbo, protein they need in the sahur and buka.


Just four consideration about kids before 5 years  old that wanna fasting. Actually the important part is watch out their nutrition. If they have enough weight and height, it's okay to do fasting.

That's because, kids which does not have enough weight and height should reach their enough nutrition. Parent often worry about their nutrition in the fasting.

 

A Bag for All Kids Activity, Is It Enough?

A Bag for All Kids Activity, Is It Enough?

Elementary kids which has so much activity needs more than one bag. It is not applicable for kids under five years old before they go to school.

Some parents start to give some activity for kids when they study in the pre-school. There are some activity like school, holiday, and course.

In the other hands, kids just have one activity like school. It is only depend on the parents ability to pay some course for kids. There is parents which registered kids for more than two course.

Every kids activity need to bring some stuff. For example, book, lunch box, and pencil case for school. Beside that, they also need to bring bottle, snacks and toy in the holiday.

The things that brought by kids should save in the bag. They need bag to organize all things they bring. It is impossible to bring many things without bag.

That's why kids need have more than one bag to go some place. The more they growth, the more they need have more than one bag.

Kids cannot bring school bag in the holiday. The school bag has bigger size to bring holiday. It just for school activity and cannot use to other.

Kids Activity & Its Bags

Every kids activity has certain bag. Like the explanation before, school bags cannot use to other activity. Kinds of bag depends on the use of bags.

1. Holiday Bag

There is kids that all personal needs brought by moms. However, ask kids to bring their personal needs is better to independence practice.

Kids can take holiday stuff like snack, mineral water, just a little toy in a special bag for holiday. The size of bag for holiday is smaller than school bag.

2. School Bag

School bag is bigger than holiday bag. Why it can be like that? it is because school bag contain some tools for school. There are some school tools that has big size like more than one books, pencil case, lunch box, etc.

Beside that, moms should pay attention at the quality of school bag. It has cheap price is very easy to break. For long time school bag, moms should choose school bag with good quality.

3. Course Bag

It depends on the kind of course. For example, the kids are joined with english course. So, they just bring course book, dictionary, and pencil case. It's smaller than school bag.

However, exercise course like swimming and basket needs more space of a bag to save more than one clothes, mineral water, tools like swimming goggles, basket ball, etc

4. Playdate Bag

Playdate means that kids go to friends home or just follow moms to go somewhere. Sometimes, moms need to go in the grocery or market.

Kids wanna follow to the market, they bring a small bag to handphones, wallet, or money without wallet. Just a small bag, simple things to have.


Four kind of bags above depends on the need and condition. However, some kids just have one bag for all activities. In this case, bag will be easily damaged.

So, they needs at least more than one bag to use one by one. Having more than one bag will make bag has good condition in the long time than having just a bag in the home.

Aurelie Moeremans Books : Grooming Case as Reminder for Kids

Aurelie Moeremans Books : Grooming Case as Reminder for Kids

 Aurelie Moeremans books had already famous after published. All people talk about it. The books is contain grooming case from 29 years old man through a 15 years old girl.

Grooming is the situation when an adult makes a girl become helpless by using their kindness, seduction, praise, and then the case leads into sex harassment. This is so scary for our kids.

By reading the story of Aurelie Moeremans book, moms should protect kids from grooming case. It left bad impact for kids like traumatics and personality change.

How to Avoid Grooming Case?

There are some tips to avoid grooming case that always looks at kids as victims. Moms can apply it from kids under three years old. Do not wait until they grow up.

1. Sex Education

Sex education for kids is important. Starting under three years old, moms can explain about their genital organ. It is sensitive to touch other people, explain to kids that there is no other people can touch it.

Beside that, there is also relationship with other gender that should be avoided. Do not let other gender to kiss and hug except moms and dad.

Kids is very easy to empowered by adults. Imagine that someone just give them candy or money and then they will ask to follow. That's why sex education is very important.

By explaining about sex education, kids will understand about prohibition and they tell story to moms when there is something disturbance from other people and friend.

2. Informing How to Reject Grooming Case

The second step to avoid grooming case is informing to kids how to reject if someone doing something. There are some way to reject like shout to ask other for help.

Firstly, kids can reject when other gender touch sensitive genital. When the effort is useless, kids can shout till going somewhere far away from the predator of grooming case.

Actually there is also one important way to reject grooming case. Moms can registered kids into exercise like taekwondo, self-defense, and other martial arts.

3. Creating Bonding with Kids

The third tips is always creating bonding with kids. This is also has important role to avoid grooming case. Why it can be like that?

When kids and moms has good bonding, kids always tell they feel. Sometimes, the victims of grooming case is directly close them self. They will not tell everything because of traumatic effect.

Kids which has good bonding with moms will tell all the things in the school.  Every activity, incident, is always they tell to moms because they comfort with moms.

For example, kids become victims of grooming case and then they will tell the case to moms. After that, moms can decide for some solution.


The books of Aurelie Moeremans is very important to be our reminder why three tips above should be done. Moms, the one who can protect kids from grooming case.

It has bad impact for our kids. Starting now, sex education is not taboo for kids. Explain them about what should not be happen for them. Hopefully grooming case will not happen with our kids.

Raining All The Day: Blessing or Activities Barrier

Raining All The Day: Blessing or Activities Barrier

 January is the winter in the some country but the other is rain season like Indonesia. The intensity of rain is happen rapidly.

In this month, the rain is always happen every day start in the morning until evening. In the some area get impact like flood, landslide, until earthquake.


Raining all the day can stop so much activity in the weekday. Imagine that moms and kids has full day activity in the weekday and then suddenly rain in the morning.

The rain cause moms and kids cannot go somewhere in the weekday. However, some people know that rain is blessing. So, do not use rain as the reason to stop moms and kids activity.

Rain in the morning can be disturbance like kids cannot go to school, and moms cannot go to the office, grocery store for shopping, etc

Why it can be like that? there is still raincoat and umbrella to protect from rain. That's why moms should prepare both of them in the good condition for family.

Do not use rain as disturbance. Rain is blessing from God. However, moms and kids as human should take care also with the world so that there is not disaster because of rain.

Moms and kids can join or participate to take care with environment like clean the house, reduce trash and the use of plastic, use renewable energy.

The importance part is not agree with over use of trees. It has important role to hold the water of rain so that there is no flood.

Rain All The Day in The Weekday: What Should Moms and Kids Doing?

Rain is not activities barrier. It is blessing. So, moms and kids can run activities like usual daily. Do not stop activity if the rain intensity is acceptable.

1. Kids Go to School

Monday till friday is the day of school the kids. If there is rain, kids can go to school wear umbrella or raincoat. Rainy day is not holiday, except there is rain storm which cannot acceptable.

2. Moms Go to Office

Moms has responsible in the other place. If moms is an employee, moms can go to company. If moms is an entrepreneur, moms can go to place to sell something.

An employee has responsible with the boss and the an entrepreneur has responsible with the customer although rain all the day.

3. Take Care Each Other

Take care each other means that, moms can ask the condition of kids in the school. Is she or he is arrived in the school? Moms can ask the teacher by using whatsApp or call by phone.

4. Be Patient

Sometimes, rain give little bit barriers but it is not stop the activity. In the big city like Jakarta, rain all the day makes very hard traffic jam and flood. So, be patient.


The main point is do not stop activities or make rain as the activities barrier. Rain is blessing so be grateful if there is rain all the day and keep run everything like usual.

First Week in The First Month: How About Moms New Years Resolution?

First Week in The First Month: How About Moms New Years Resolution?

  In the previous 2025 last years, most people say about their new years resolution included moms and kids. All of them has different resolution.

In the seventh day of January, do you already start the resolution? Moms and kids should start the resolution in the first day of 2026.

This is important part in life. It seems like easy but little bit difficult to do. People is always forget about their resolution.

Usually moms has so much resolution because moms has many role in the family. Every detail in the home related to moms role.

In the new years (2026) moms should have resolution in life to be better. Sometimes there are some moms resolution like the point below:

1. manage the emotion

2. keep the house more clean

3. cook more for family

4. get additional income

5. take care of skin

6. join some community

7. exercise in the home

8. save money

9. manage clothes in the cupboard

There will be more and more resolution for moms. Full time mommy or working mommy usually has same resolution point like above.

It just some example of moms resolution in this world, but the question is have you already start doing something for new years resolution?.

Do not wait until long time to start. This is already seventh day of January. Moms have to start from the first day of new years.

However there is also still way to begin all resolution. Applied some step to achieved it is better than doing nothing.

Step to Achieve New Years Resolution

There are some step to achieve new years resolution. Moms can do one by one as action to get the resolution. This is so easy step to do.

1. Remember all new years resolution

By remembering al resolution, moms get motivation and spirit to achieve it. In the first day of January, moms can read all list and decide one resolution firstly to do.

2. Choose one resolution firstly

From all resolution, moms can decide one resolution firstly. One which easy to do will make time efficient. It is impossible to do all in the same time.

3. Plan the step how to achieve it.

For example for the second point is moms that already choose to take care of skin. In the third poin, moms can make plan like 

a. always washing face in the morning and night

b. buy a facial foam

c. always using facial foam when take a bath

4. Repeat Plan

Repeat plan in the third point before. This is important to do to create habit life. So, the plan above always happen everyday.

5. Choose Other Resolution

If the plan already become habit, moms can choose other resolution and applied some step like the first resolution.


The step above is easy to do. Starting now or never. After starting the step above, moms just need a consistency to achieve all dream in the 2026.

All people want better life in this years. So, do not waste the time for doing nothing. There are so much time and get all the resolution this years.

Treatment Products for Moms

Treatment Products for Moms

 Hi moms, you look so beautiful! Do you know there are some treatment product to use? Moms should have this in the home.

It just basic treatment products to make moms more beautiful and treat mom's look so that it does not decrease because of age.

Mom appearance when 25 age is different with 30 age. That's why moms need treatment product to treat the appearance.

In this world moms can try all varian product and choose the suitable one. For example, lipstick. There are so many lipstick brand with different price.

Moms can choose one which appropriate with budget and comfortable looks. This article give information about some treatment product that must have by moms.

Every product has different function. Why moms should use treatment product? it should be use to make moms become beautiful, to treat the skin, and of course to make husband like.

Some moms lazy and busy to buy treatment product. Moms can get information the list of treatment product to buy in this article.

After reading this article, moms can check and buy the product directly. However, look at some brands and then check the composition product to match with mom's like.

Treatment Product That Should Buy Moms

There will be some list to buy. This article will not mention all treatment product. It just basic product and easy to find in the marketplace.

1. Powder

Powder is kind of makeup to make moms become beautiful. There are two kind of powder like solid powder and loose powder.

Both of them has variant brand. Moms can choose one of them that appropriate with type of skin. This treatment product should available in the home.

Imagine that moms going somewhere without powder. They seems like not yet taking a bath. Just needs a little powder before go out.

2. Lipstick

It's same with powder. Lipstick is included in the kind of makeup. It makes mom's lip become beautiful. When moms is using lipstick, they will not looks like pale.

This is very simple combination between powder and lipstick to go out somewhere. There are so many colour of lipstick.

Moms which has so much money can buy more than one colour of lipstick. However a lipstick is enough to be a stock of treatment product in the home.

3. Perfume

All moms in the world is having body odor. It makes people around uncomfortable. Perfume is the third treatment product.

Moms should have minimally one perfume in the home. Perfume makes fragrant aromatics for mom's body so that other people happy to stay near moms.

Another moms just go out without take a bath before. They just use so much perfume to make good aromatics. That's so fun.


Just three of product above. It's basic product that always available in the home. Another product like skincare, eyebrow pencil, body scrub, etc are additional.

If moms have enough time and budget, moms can buy additional product to make treatment product become complete.

Burn Out Disturbing Full Time Mommy

Burn Out Disturbing Full Time Mommy

 Do you full time mommy? Do you ever feel burn out? Burn out is the condition when moms cannot organize mood well.

Burn out give bad impact for moms activity. Full time mommy has so much activity start in the morning until night.

The activity like cooking, cleaning, prepare kids and husband daily needs, budgeting money, etc. All activity absorb thoughts and energy.

Moms is overthinking with tomorrow menu for family. Thinking about appropriate parenting for kids. So, where is the quality time for moms?

Quality time is important for moms to avoid burn out. Moms that feel burn out is easy to angry, suddenly crying without any causes.

The victims from moms burn out usually is kids. They becomes moms stress release. Kids before five age years old is golden age, they should get the best parenting from moms.

So, do not use kids as stress release from burn out. Moms just needs quality time to avoid burn out. What kinds of quality time for full time mommy?

Actually quality time is easy to find in the mom's busy time. As we know that so much activity is running everyday. Moms should insert the quality time between all house work.

Quality Time To Avoid Mom's Burn Out

Giving moms quality time has purpose to stress release, make them happy although it's just simple things in the home.

This article give easy quality time to do for moms to avoid burn out. Hopefully this list will decrease mom's burn out.

1. Eating Favourite Food

Mostly woman like to eat. So, eating become one of stress release from burn out. This is so easy way. For example, moms like to eat spicy noodle.

So, moms can cook spicy noodle in the home and take a rest to eat. Do not forget to add vegetable and protein. Moms have to control kind of food to eat because it's related to healthy condition.

2. Drinking Juice

Drinking juice can make mom's head become cold. However just add little spoon of sugar. Moms can choose kind of fruits.

After that, blend the fruit becomes juice and add ice, that's fresh! If there is fruit to juice. Moms can just drink cold water.

3. Sleeping In The Bedroom

Sleeping in the bedroom has purpose to give moms take a rest. Full time mommy is so tired, they just need take a rest from all activity in the home.

Moms, if you are tired, you can take a rest and just sleeping in the bedroom just for thirty minutes if the works is still available.

4. Scrolling Handphone

Scrolling handphone and look at some stuff in the marketplace is the mood booster for moms. This is so easy to do. Just sitting and open the handphone.

Although moms does not buy, and just look at the stuff it will makes moms become happy until forget the previous activity.


Four list of quality time is very easy to do in the home. Beside that, moms can go to holiday to reduce burn out. Holiday needs some long time, different with activity above.

Come on, just take a rest and doing some quality time to make your mood happy. Burn out has bad impact, so moms should avoid it as soon as possible!