Author Aurelie Moeremans books had already famous after published. All people talk about it. The books is contain grooming case from 29 years old man through a 15 years old girl.
Grooming is the situation when an adult makes a girl become helpless by using their kindness, seduction, praise, and then the case leads into sex harassment. This is so scary for our kids.
By reading the story of Aurelie Moeremans book, moms should protect kids from grooming case. It left bad impact for kids like traumatics and personality change.
How to Avoid Grooming Case?
There are some tips to avoid grooming case that always looks at kids as victims. Moms can apply it from kids under three years old. Do not wait until they grow up.
1. Sex Education
Sex education for kids is important. Starting under three years old, moms can explain about their genital organ. It is sensitive to touch other people, explain to kids that there is no other people can touch it.
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Beside that, there is also relationship with other gender that should be avoided. Do not let other gender to kiss and hug except moms and dad.
Kids is very easy to empowered by adults. Imagine that someone just give them candy or money and then they will ask to follow. That's why sex education is very important.
By explaining about sex education, kids will understand about prohibition and they tell story to moms when there is something disturbance from other people and friend.
2. Informing How to Reject Grooming Case
The second step to avoid grooming case is informing to kids how to reject if someone doing something. There are some way to reject like shout to ask other for help.
Firstly, kids can reject when other gender touch sensitive genital. When the effort is useless, kids can shout till going somewhere far away from the predator of grooming case.
Actually there is also one important way to reject grooming case. Moms can registered kids into exercise like taekwondo, self-defense, and other martial arts.
3. Creating Bonding with Kids
The third tips is always creating bonding with kids. This is also has important role to avoid grooming case. Why it can be like that?
When kids and moms has good bonding, kids always tell they feel. Sometimes, the victims of grooming case is directly close them self. They will not tell everything because of traumatic effect.
Kids which has good bonding with moms will tell all the things in the school. Every activity, incident, is always they tell to moms because they comfort with moms.
For example, kids become victims of grooming case and then they will tell the case to moms. After that, moms can decide for some solution.
The books of Aurelie Moeremans is very important to be our reminder why three tips above should be done. Moms, the one who can protect kids from grooming case.
It has bad impact for our kids. Starting now, sex education is not taboo for kids. Explain them about what should not be happen for them. Hopefully grooming case will not happen with our kids.